things that are no good for me

I really don't know where to start. A lot of things had happened to me recently and I am not shocked that there were rumours too. Is it her fault if she dedicated her life to be the best for someone, and in the end all she got was hatred, inequalities and indifferences? And yes, they said. Move on, they said. I don't think it is that simple to portray that we are good enough to let go something that is so connected to us.

I am really sick when people starting to judge other people's personal life. It's not that I cared about it, but all of those negativities are just extremely obtrusive.

I know that this might sound derivative but the only way to survive this is to always focus on your goals, not letting others define who you are and love yourself no matter in what circumstances. Because trust me, letting others to control your mind is an inevitable poison that could destroy you from inside. It is always about,

"what do i look like in front of people"

"what will they talk about me if they see me like this"

"i have to behave in order to let people like me"

Please, remove all of those parasitical thoughts in your mind. You'll never be happy if you keep thinking about what could be better for others. Start thinking what could be better for your own good.

I'm writing this in order to help those people out there because I know how it feels to be alone. I know how it feels to have thoughts in your mind that could kill you inside. And one more thing, trust issues are common and inevitable these days. When we're committed to something and we have devoted ourselves to be the best for someone and he/she still feels like it's not enough, just walk away. You know what is my classic mistake? Every time I tried in relationship, I will think that this is the best relationship I've ever had and I will love this person in order to keep him forever. And that idea crushed me every single time.

P.S. I'm writing just to 

help people understand how,

what and why.